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Finding the Fun: How to Navigate Your Journey's Boring But Necessary Bits

August 28, 2024

Finding the Fun: How to Navigate Your Journey's Boring But Necessary Bits
By Steven W. Alloway 

“In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun. You find the fun, and snap! The job’s a game!” As is often the case, Mary Poppins had some very good life advice, which can be applied to adulthood just as much as to childhood. Perhaps even more so. Because while children have chores that take up a few hours each day, as adults, we have jobs, which can represent a full third or more of our lives—and which can, at times, be quite drudgerous. So if anyone needs to find the element of fun, it’s us.


Now, I’m lucky enough to write for a living. I know I’m lucky, because whenever I tell someone what I do for a living, they say, “Wow, you get to get paid for writing? You’re so lucky!”


And on some level, they’re right. I get to do what I love. I’d rather be writing than just about any of the other jobs I’ve had in my lifetime—except maybe that time I did background for Grey’s Anatomy, and craft services included a custom omelet station.


But even though I love it, that doesn’t mean the writing I do can’t be mind-numbingly boring some days. For one thing, there are different levels of “writing for a living.” I think when I tell people I’m a writer, they picture scripts and novels, or at least essays, and think pieces on some popular website. That’s not what I do.


Instead, the article I was just assigned to write today is called, “Prepping Your Home for Sale on a Budget.” What do I know about prepping your home for sale on a budget? Absolutely nothing. Yet. But give me an hour, and I’ll be able to pretend I know absolutely everything about it, for 600 words. Then it’s on to the next article, whose topic might be anything from gardening tips to air conditioning maintenance to the technical ins and outs of marketing automation software. 


On a good day, I’ll write half a dozen of these articles. Some of it is genuinely fascinating. Some of it is decidedly not. Like any job, there are good days and bad days, fun tasks and boring tasks. But all of it has to be done. So how do I push through and get it all finished, regardless? I find the element of fun.


Of course, Mary Poppins had a bit of a cheat in that department. She used magic. Beds made themselves, and toys marched into the toy boxes of their own volition. It’s easy to find fun in doing your chores when your chores are actually doing themselves. Most of us don’t have that luxury. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t still some fun to be had. 



So how do you find the fun in something you have to do? Start by breaking it down into its individual elements. What are the different steps you have to do to accomplish this task? What does each step entail?

Now, what is it that you enjoy about the job you’re doing? What drew you to this job in the first place? Is there a way to inject some of that joy into your current task? What about the current step you’re doing? Is there anything interesting about it? Is there anything that could be interesting about it? 


As a writer, one of the things I enjoy is playing with words. It’s not always easy with the things I write, but if you know where to look, there are still ways to get a little silly. One of my favorite articles I ever wrote, a factual article about saving energy through appliance maintenance, opened with the line, “The Kansas City area is facing a threat of vampires!” The client published that on their website, and I’m very proud of it.


Or, did you know that it’s possible just to invent your own words? Not only can nobody stop you, if your word is interesting and useful enough, other people might start using it too!


With the permission (nay, encouragement!) of an editor at Merriam-Webster, I did this a number of years ago. I coined the word “mobilely” to refer to things now done on your phone from anywhere, that once had to be done from a specific location, such as on your computer, in a store, etc.


I spent years inserting “mobilely” into as many articles, for as many clients, as I possibly could, in the hope that it would gain enough widespread usage to wind up in the dictionary. It never did catch on, and most of my editors actually removed it from the final copy, but still, it was something I always looked forward to.


(In fact, keen observers, might even notice that I did something similar in the opening paragraph of this very article. Drudgerous. New adjective form of drudgery. Tell your friends.)


 I’ll also put in song lyrics, pop culture references, or just cool words I happen to like. (I once opted to forgo putting the word “balderdash” into an article I was writing, and I have regretted it ever since.) These are little, seemingly insignificant things, and 95% of them, nobody is ever going to notice them but me. But these little bits can mean the difference between a boring article that I struggle to find motivation for and an amusing game I look forward to playing.


This can be done with just about anything that you otherwise might struggle to get done. Doing housework? Have a dance party with your broom, mop, or vacuum. Data entry? Look for interesting or unusual names of people, streets, towns, etc. Craft a story about them in your mind.


On a really long drive somewhere—or have a regular commute in heavy traffic every day? Look for cool street signs that could be character names. This works particularly well if you can find a series of several street names in a row that work well together. I have a whole melodrama in my head from many years ago, when I had to commute back and forth from the Valley to Venice every day, starring the coquettish heroine, Rose Marine Ashland, the noble hero, Beethoven Walgrove Lincoln, and the dastardly villain, Wilshire Montana.

Also, in almost anything you’re doing, music helps enormously. Or podcasts or audiobooks, or whatever you feel like listening to. I like old-time radio dramas. For a couple of months this summer, most of my dishes were getting done to episodes of the 1945 serial “Superman Vs. The Atom Man.”

In the end, there’s no such thing as a perfect job. Even if you are lucky enough to get paid to do what you love, there will still be days when it’s the last thing in the world you want to do. Background on the set of Grey’s Anatomy may have been a party for a day, but I’m confident that even that would have become a chore if I’d kept doing it. 95% of background work is sitting around doing nothing while you wait for instructions, and that’s not something I would choose as a career. And even custom omelets would get tiresome after a while.


Despite the drawbacks, despite the fact that it’s still not quite where I want to be, I am grateful every day that I’m able to make my living as a writer, and when it comes down to it, there’s no other career I’d rather have. Still, that doesn’t mean there’s nothing else I’d rather be doing — especially if it’s a choice between working on my latest story or play, or helping residents of Midland, Michigan learn how to prep their home for sale on a budget.


And I know I’m not the only one. Everyone goes through this sometimes. In fact, this is a good thing. That dissatisfaction with where we are now is what pushes us towards our goals for the future. But it can also be frustrating. No matter where you are in life and what you’re striving for, there will always be things you wish you didn’t have to do and days when you’d rather be doing almost anything than the task at hand.


But if you can find that element of fun, it can get you through those parts you don’t necessarily like and help you focus on the parts you do—while not losing sight of the thing that drew you to this in the first place. (As far as your job is concerned, anyway. For housework tasks, the overarching purpose doesn’t work as well. Those just need to be done. I’m sorry.)



The element of fun is different for every person and for every task, but it’s always there if you know how to look for it. I can’t guarantee that it will make every task you undertake become a piece of cake. There will still be challenges. There always are. But with a little luck and a little ingenuity, that spoonful of sugar can help the medicine to go down, if not in a most delightful way, then at least a palatable one.

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